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Where are you ???Hey Ladies, Where are you ??We are back on the rap guys are yelling because thier woman does not cook !! Hello are you just asking to be alone ??? Between the no cooking and no communication and no love making the guys are really PISSED OFF.......Thought it is time to finish this conversation what we as Ladies are doing is wrong not that any one is going to listen as we have been down this road before..But no one seems to pay attention I guess I am just to old fashioned ....Why is it that I hear the same B___H all the time ...How can you just because you have been with someone for so long just stop doing the home things ??? Ihave to stop this for right now I have a meeting I will continue when I get home..WELL now are you ready ???GUESS WHAT you have to be because here goes.....Once again the guys I work with are on the same old trip.Wives, girlfriends, partners not keeping up thier end of the relationship...Hey, I know what it is like to have a family a job house and to try and make it all work. I guess you have to be willing to give alot of yourself..How do you ration yourself into 18 pieces ?? First you have to remember to try and stay the person he fell in love with..How often do you go to bed so beat you throw on an ugly t shirt crawl into bed and hope and pray your mate just wants to sleep and not make love ?? Hey there are times he feels the same way but you need to take the time to learn when he is just as beat as you...Did he get a kiss at the door ??Did you fix dinner??? House clean, children taken care of ...Everything mellowed out for the evening ??? OR as he walked in the door you started b--ching and moaning about the kids the job just everything and anything ..Nothing cooked you look like the bag lady holes in your shirt. You changed as soon as you got home and he left in the morning before you so you looked the same this morning sure you have alot to do in the morning but get yourself together first get you ready then fix breakfast, your lunches send him off with a smile that his lady looked so good before he left..You get to comfortable in you being lazy ...HE GETS TIRED OF YOU LOOKING LIKE HELL....Come on fix yourself up take a day to do nothing but pamper him and yourself, Let him know how much you still LOVE HIM.....I have been silent for a while so here goes. Men want thier woman to smell good to be attentive to LOOK GOOD for him ..I have told you before there is someone out there will give him 100% and be all that she can be for him. She will pamper him hold him kiss him , she will make him feel like a man all the way PUT YOURSELF IN CHECK.... Stop and look at what you are doing or not doing CHANGE BEFORE IT IS TO LATE..... ??What is in someones mind that really does not care about where they live or if they clean up or not....I am so disenchanted with my Grandsons girlfriend she is out and out just lazy..How can a man put up with someone that nasty and don't tell me he is PW..It can not believe it is so good that you don't care if she,BATHES cleans your house ,cooks does laundry ..I have had it with my situation this young lady could care less..You would think since she pays no rent no gas no phone no electric that she would try and contribute to take care of the house if nothing else..But I come home from work her night gown on the floor in the front room. Dirty diapers on the DRAIN BOARD ..Dirty dishes in the sink all the silver dirty no spoon to even stir my coffee..I work alot to keep my house and pay my bills where do you draw the LINES ???Sure she has two children one of them is my great grandchild three months old on the 30th of September...and the other little boy turned four in march ..She was driving my grandsons car I thought she had a license GUESS WHAT....Car IMPOUNDED 375 dollars later I get it out I let her use it for emergencys she takes total control and guess what still no license So I tell her no license no car ..Then she comes home with the babys in the car HIGH ..she tells me how alert she is when she is high.. Hello if you have ever smoked you already know how alert you are...OOPS car is in my name , She takes the car when ever she wants stays out until 4AM.. Oh !!!forgot all night..Guess who has the baby??? So car is now somewhere else....She crys what am I supposed to do with no car ,,I tell her I gave you FOUR months to get it together and still no license..''Show me a license we will talk ...OH YES INSURANCE a MUST ALSO....The answer I get is I can't pass the test....I need the car to take the baby to the doctor .I need the car to get a job...Hello came home today as I said house nasty ..Look I am no angel I had to grow up just like everyone I admit if pot was legal ,but it is just like booze you need to be aware of your actions and what it does to you...Get high make sure your children are in a safe place not in the car with you driving...HELLO are you stupid ??? Being high you think you know it all...The only thing I can say is I loved my Babys so much that I would not put them at risk because I wanted to get High...Or sleep around ..Yes I got high ..I did not sleep around might have thought about it but I was afraid I might catch something..Came home the house reaks of pot I could have got contact HIGH...We have had this argument before no POT, DOPE, MARY JANE OR WHAT EVER COMES ACROSS YOUR HANDS IN MY HOUSE......NONE!! YOU GET IT GET YOUR OWN PLACE...NOT IN MINE... I Do not want the baby arond it what don't you understand???????????I realize not my child but a high baby
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