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What am I looking for ......WOW..Someone today asked me what I am looking for, I had not really thought about it to much....I had thought I had the world on a string and now all of a sudden I find myself LOST and trying to understand WHY ?????? They asked me about my sex life which is no ones business except mine and whom ever I share with so that part ,we only touch on lightly....Being older I don't have the stigma of having to sleep around if and when the time comes it will happen if there is someone that turns me on like that......But the question was what am I looking ,the answer is Iam looking for Love !!Someone to share time with I don't have to be in his space all the time we don"t have to see each each other everyday....Someone that can be happy snuggling or holding hands or sharing a bowl of POPCORN watching a movie not everything is or has to be a physical thing sure its nice to have that also but there is so much more to life and to Loving...People have forgotten what is like to love and care and share..Now everthing is in such a rush no foreplay to LOVING. Kissing.,holding hands, hugging, just the simple things that life has to offer.The other night a friend and I went to a Jazz Club to listen to music when we left the club he held my hand for awhile then put his arm around me I had forgotten how nice it was to be treated that way and not to be expected to go to bed. He dropped me off kissed me good night and it was great....SO I THINK I AM LOOKING FOR THAT OLD FASHIONED SHARING AND CARING.. Last night my friend picked me up we went to the beach he fixed a picnic we had a little Alize and walked on the beach for hours he is a very special person ...But have you ever knonn someone so well that your friendship is like being with family....I know that he cares for me and he knows that my heart belongs to another .I believe that life is to short to live it alone for to long you need to share to give to feel... Iwould love to meet someone to walk on the beach with to wash the car with , someone to make a sandwich with,maybe help with the dishes to watch a sunset or for that matter a sunrise ....someone to kiss goodnight or kiss good morning someone to LOVE HONESTLY and to share with ..I don't need someone to take care of me .You know what I am saying so many of us ( ladies) are looking for that please take care of me...I am grown I am a helper not a taker.. So love me for me ,thats what I am Looking for....I am looking for someone share the rest of my days with what ever they are and for ever long they are . Being alone is alright for a while but I miss the closeness when you are two THAT EQUAL ONE.. Understand ?????
Special Day Special Day
I have a special Day that puts a song in my heart,
A day that adds a spring to my step and sunshine to my day.
It's the presence of you that adds the smile that lights my way,
My special day is when I see your face and hear your voice,
It could be Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday now let me see,
There is only one special day for me and that day is whenever
you are near Thursday, Friday, Saturday now let me see what
is left is plain to see Sunday is left for me and you know why,
But the rest of the days are there just waiting for you to share
one of my special days with no one else BUT YOU...
jab2007
.. another questiion asked !!!Ladies, Ladies, Why do you ask these stupid QUESTIONS that are only going to piss you off and raise your blood pressuer. Two questions were brought to me number one "Why does a man have to deal with his ex ????Number two Why does he have another ladies phone number in his phone that I DO NOT KNOW????
OK first off YOU SAY X , X what ?? Girlfriend ?? Wife ?? Friend?? Where do you get off first of all using the term X ...X means NO MORE...Wife, Girlfriend, friend It should never be brought into your mouth X. A marriage is a serious thing if they went there seperate ways for some reason they choose to do so and itis not for you to even atempt to try and stop or get in the middle of the relationship that is because of CHILDREN, BUSINESS or just CUZ ,there is always going to be reasons for them to speak. Number TWO !!! SO are you so selfabsorbed that you think if he speaks to any of these people he has to be sleeping with them or are you so insecure in your relationship that you have no trust...Well for any relationship to work you must trust with no trust you are doomed. relationship..Friends come on friends in your phone..Lets be real are YOU Girlfriends HEY they are not together but they shared something so whats the harm in them speaking??? Friends are friends...Do you have as you say X BOYFRIENDS in your PHONE bet ya do if you have had any type of relationship are you SLEEPING WITH THEM OR ARE THEY FRIENDS???What makes you think the guy you are with is a DAWG....Are you doing these things ?? are you sleeping around are you the one with a jaded past????? Ladies ,.Ladies, First off there are some things you have no business in ...ONE HIS WALLET....TWO HIS PHONE These things are his not yours some respect is needed in things that are private...Respect HIM and HE will respect YOU !!! SO DESERVE RESPECT and you will recieve it !!! So DON'Tsmother him we all need space even together as one can you relate ......HOPE SO !!!!
So whats next let me know I will answer all !!!!!
where has it goneHello I just read something that made me really really THINK....They asked
what has happened to loving someone and being with someone in a one on one .Where has the old fashioned caring went ..Do You know what I am saying ???,Just being close to someone you care about to see them smile to
catch a glimps of them out of the corner of your eye and think to yourself
how lucky you are...I do understand what they are saying as I had thirty wonderful years and thats the only way I can evaluate a relationship is by those standards. You see I have kept myself for someone special just to have
sex everywhere and with just anyone is just out and out NASTY...I beleive in being a one man woman and that is the way I live my life...You people that
have no respect for yourselves I do not understand..I am not saying that if
you want to sleep around that you can't, what I am saying is you need to be more particular in what you do... Most of you that are out there just messing around do not stop to think about what you can catch or what could happen to you ...You must learn to be more selective in your endoveres ...some times I wish that I could be more open but I don't have a clue how to begine. My Dad always told me be a lady always and if you really care for someone it will work out..If it does not work its not to be...And then he told me bad girls never WIN they just get used. OK , Lets get one thing clear I am no angel I have someone I care so very much about and I know that it is one sided but he is all I want and all that I will be envolved with. One reason I have not wanted to have an intimate relationship with any one since my husband died until NOW and I don't know what too do about it . I have not felt this way for such along time.and I don't want to be thought of as easy or a loose woman , So I am at a point in my life that I really don't know what to do.....How to handle it...I need to be close I believe that is the reason I can't wait to see him just to be close....................So alittle advice take it slow and easy FEEL FIRST.........
BE YOU !! This is for the young woman that is in LOVE with that guy who walks
all over you , abuses you makes you feel small JUST uses you up.
Be UNIQUE one of a kind !!!!!
Here is a quote that may help you ...You must always be sepecial ..
''You can't make someone love you,
All you can do is be someone who can
be loved. The rest is up to that person
to realize your worth.''
Think about it always be YOU !!!!! Don't Ask !!LADIES, LADIES.... I am at a loss as how you ladies have the nerve to do the things and say the things you do...I was privy to a conversation at work about men looking at other women when with thier ladies!!!!One of the ladies asked me what I thought and before I could respond !!! Her comment to me was " NO HELL NO he is with me what does he need to look at anyone else for" ??? And as I listened most of them felt the same way !!! FIRST off why ask the question if you don't wait for the answer ???
COME on are you LADIES really BRAIN DAMAGED ??? EXCUSE ME ! What do you do when you see a man that turns your head...Something caught your eye was it because he was well groomed ,buff , cute or out and out FINE, FINE, FINE?? No matter what the reason the only way you did not look was because you did not see HIM...Now back to the question at hand.....Is your man DEAD or BLIND ???? I know mine sure as hell was not he LOOKED and if I thought he missed something I would point her out....WHATS the harm absoloutly none.....Why are you so insecure in yourselves....Do tou think he is going to go looking for these ladies that he has seen????? Or is he just HAPPY to have seen a pretty girl or someone big BREASTED or BABY GOT BACK that caught his eye, so he thinks to himself WOW and keeps on STEPPIN, whats the HARM??? Did it take anything away from you ???? HELL NO !!! So what was the problem ??? Hey I could go on and on with some of the topics you folks have asked about it would take me days to answer all of them..BUT I will in time get to them all.. BUT will you listen or just get pissed off at me .. DO I care if you are angry ,NO !!! I just want you to learn something and take heed....Right now you are saying what does this BITCH know??? Hey I'II tell ya NOT a WHOLE LOT, but what I do know is I LOVe being a LOVER,Woman,friend,companion,helper...What ever it takes to please dig in the mud and when its time to put on your silks and satins smell good and WELL.....................As long as my guy is satisfied the rest is not important...IT IS JUST DUMB S__t !!! ALWAYS & FOREVERPledge of Love
I've made a vow, to no one but you I pledge my love to forever be true I'll take care of you and treat you right I'll lay beside you all through the night I'll feed you and clothe you and keep you warm I'll hug you and kiss you and give shelter in the storm I'll help you and guide you and clear a path I'll protect you and shield you from an angry man's wrath I'll listen to your problems help you solve them too I'll make you a rainbow and let the sun shine through I'll take your side even if you're wrong Just to prove our love is strong I'll plant you flowers and make them grow They'll be a symbol of love that only we'll know I'll whisper your name when no one is near So low that only you can hear You'll feel my love even if we're apart You'll know that we are one in heart Your Name I wrote your name in the sky, but the wind blew it away. I wrote your name in the sand, but the waves washed it away. I wrote your name in my heart, and forever it will stay/ Quick prayer for being good
Dear Lord, So far today, am I doing alright? I have not gossiped, lost my temper, been greedy, grumpy, nasty, selfish orself-indulgent. I have not whined, complained, cursed or eaten any chocolate!! AND I have charged nothing on my credit cardBut I will be getting out of bed in a minute and then I think that I will really need your help :-) Getting to know me...Let's see ,where do I start ?? What would you like to know ?? I am an old fashioned lady that believes that a woman needs to remember how to be a Lady, a woman, and a WHORE!!! Not in that order but you need to be all of these things.....Sure you are going to block me out and say that I must be a real NUT !!!!! No not crazy, JUST VERY HONEST....I have alot of intrests , but after being married to the same man for 30 years ..I have likes that most people stop doing after the first few years of marriage ,Snuggling, hugging,kissing slowly, spooning, touching, holding each other just being close.....I love SEX and whom ever I MAY find they must LIKE it as much as I do....Don't get me wrong I DO NOT sleep around I DON"T BELIEVE IN IT ...I am a one man woman ....I have a man in my life and he is all that want at this time he LETS ME BE ME!!!!!! I am SECURE in myself and would love to find someone that can ACCEPT me for me! And what I enjoy!! I met someone the other day that says he wants a ONE on ONE relationship but as much as I want one I can not bring myself to go out with him or be with him . I am seeing a guy that means the world to me he is my ebb !!! I tell him all the time ONCE A WEEK IS NOT WHAT'S HAPPENING, I need more.. I know that we are not going anywhere and maybe now is the time for me to venture out Maybe I am just to secure with the ONCE AND a while..But reguardless all of this makes me who I am. At one point in my life 428 1/4 lbs I was real lost married to the wrong man for 12years and abused everyday kicked , slapped, hit, locked up I mean really locked up not just mental...HE WAS JUST MEAN.....Then two years later met my dream man he accepted me FAT and all ,and he completed me..Now 30 years later 268 1/4 lighter not so bad looking or at least you don't need to put a bag over my head widowed and alone Iam sitting here trying to give an insight on ME... I hope that you get some sort of idea as to what makes me tick. HEY !! NO LIES I hate being alone !! To be able watch TV with someone to snuggle to share time ,Not everything is all about sex after all you can not have SEX allday long but you can make love allday long in so many ways,Think about it .REMEMBER I SAID MAKE LOVE NOT SEX THAT IS ONE WAY TO MAKE LOVE...Tell me some of the ways you can come up with..The smells of your man, just being able to put your arm around him ,Some of the things I like is to be able to listen to him breath or snore if thats what he does, The hugs ,love making and being real as to where your Heart is... To be able to lay your head in his lap and you know that he is satisfied ,caress him as he talks to you ..You listen and it makes you feel a part of him even if you don't quite understand everything he is tell ing you ..BUT you listen as you are close ,you don't say anything because the sound of his voice is tranquil and the last thing you want to do is break the spell of just being,,,The warmth of his body the touch of his hand and sound of his voice seem to wrap you in endless warmth... I hope that each one of you encounter that type of TRUST and UNDERSTANDING...It does not happen often but you have to LOVE HONESTLY TO FIND IT.......
Ladies!!!!Where are your minds ???Category don't have one that fits unless Unthinking !!!
this is my first entry and I do so want to make a valid point as to how we as women are just lost as to the fact our men are not happy with us . I listen to the guys at work and they have real issuses and IT seems you are not aware or do you seem to care.. Most of guys feel that now that you have so called trapped them you no longer care YOU have what you want a HUSBAND as I hear most of you ladies say..You have children or jobs that take priority and the guys have become second or in most cases
third in your life .'.....When was the last time you took time to shut your mouth and just listened to your guy or laid next to him and stroked him as you listended .....Hey here is one for you....When was the last time you Just met him at the door with a hug and kiss with no BITCHIN????? Catch a clue listen to your fella ...When did you start useing SEX as a get what you want???Why is it that it is used as a weapon ..Love making is given out of love not because you have too...Or because you want something...What kind of crud is that????? I love to make love It is a release that mirrors no other....To know my man is happy is such a turn on for me and it should be for you ...Hey ladies there is someone out there that will take your man and not feel a thing ..But is she smart enough to keep him lets see...She does all the things you won't loves SEX ,goes to bed smelling good and hair in place make up cute teddy maybe or nighty or in most cases nothing for her mind is always in the ready mode..... gets up in the morning showers fixes make up and hair . makes breakfast and lunch sends him off full and happy What do you think ???? You are more than likly calling her a BITCH...Yea but she has your man because you forgot how to be a woman Whats up with that. You don't cook . Fast food is your main stay..
Cooking is an art and a way to make love to your man also..........I know I have more than likly pissed you off ...But you better WAKE up..Let me know what you think........Ladies there is nothing I like more than to have a HAPPY MAN around.........What about you???? Listen to him ,love him, caress him ,be with him. I have one person I care for alot but we are sort of like ships that pass in the night but that is where my happiness is and to see him satisfied is a pleasure for me a real turn on as I have said before....Shut up, listen and love him.......... |
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