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See Ya, Later, Thank You !Have you ever told someone GOOD BYE for the last time knowing full well you will never see them again....FINAL VERY FINAl is it not.....I never tell anyone that I LOVE or Care about GOOD BYE . I say SEE YA, Or LATER , The reason is self explainatory . I want to see them again ..Also tell that someone special be it spouse, child, mother, father, friend, lover, family no matter tell them I LOVE YOU everyday. As you are not promised TOMORROW so when ever they leave you send your love with them Always I LOVE YOU .And then SEE YA !! OR, LATER !!!! Another thing I try to let them know I appreciate them THANK YOU !!....  No matter the reason always give a THANK YOU !!!!!BLUEHave you ever felt as though you were just totally all alone and no where to turn ?Well I am at that point I am empty and seem to be so alone.. I have been alone now for three years that my husband passed and eight years since my daughter passed and IT IS LIKE YESTERDAY FOR BOTH OF THEM...You are not supposed to out live your children and my husband and I planned on growing old together. But GOD had something better for them to do.. I would love to know what he has in store for me ...If it is the life I am living I want to know WHY ?? I was not brought up to be alone I was taught how to care for a husband and children..I thought when they left me I would be able to start a new life and grow....But it seems that everyone I meet is so wrapped up in themselves they do not know how to share with another person..I guess most of the people that I have met have been abused in their past relationships and so they prefer to be alone...People in my age range seem to forget that we are getting older, do we really want to spend the rest of our lives alone? We seem to take it for granted that our jobs and the things that we do now are going to complete us laterbut when we no longer have a 9 to 5 or 6 to 2 WHAT ever the hours then what ..I have found my job is just not enough I miss the hugs the smiles even the little spats and then the making up I know that you understand... We need the warmth of another human touch ,we need someone to talk with someone to share the good and bad times that happen in our LIVES. Snuggles , caresses, laughter,passion to hear a heart beat, rythum of our souls as one, someone to love us....Or maybe we just need to LOVE someone..... Love at First SIGHT ?SOMEONE ASKED ..Do I beleive in love at first sight . YES,There is that instant connection that you feel , The warm fuzzies, I have been madly in love with someone that I felt that way about from the very first time we met and spoke face to face , We communicated over the telephone for hours and so I had a good insite as to who he was then when I met him for the first time in person WOW just does not do him justice, His honesty, caring, the way he carries himself is also a total turn on for me...Does he know ?? I think he might but I am not going to throw myself.. If he ever decides that MAYBE JUST MAYBE we could hit it off then and only then I will give my all...I don't know what he may be looking for I am old fashioned and for some that may be a total turn off.. Now you say he must be Brad Pitt, Wil Smith, Bruce Lee all rolled up into one.. Well for me yes he is...But no he is just an average looking man with a wonderful smile , Strong hands , dependable as to what he has to do , and soft eyes that when he looks at you your heart melts . His conversation is open and honest how many men can speak and be honest ??? Well thats something I should not ask but they can all be honest if you let them....No games no drama is what most people look for and men are no exception they want the same thing..I really do not want to be alone for the rest of my life ..I am not going to just settle for anyone as I need to be happy with the choices that I make...But yes I beleive !!! And I have for such along time....LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT ...YES IT HAPPENS.......A glance a smile what can I say it JUST DOES !!!! Answer to Guest .In answer to ja who asked me if I thought I was being to harsh on us LADIES.. No!!!!!! I think that we as ladies need to learn that we have a
responsibility to be all we can to be all women ...We need to learn that there is no reason for us as ladies to be brash or loud like a man ...What happened to you acting like ladies,keep yourself up comb your hair I see ladies out in curlers rags on your heads. HELLO that is just not cool...I am not saying that you need to wear hose and heels all the time ..But you do need to keep yourself up, make up if you wear it hair combed.CLOTHES PRESSED...Smelling good ..Carry yourself with your head held high ..Good manors are always a plus...Example the other night I went to a Jazz club for a nice dinner and music..A young lady at the next table ..No table manors bread in one hand mouth full of food running her mouth,one hand going one way the other hand pushing her hair out of her face (and remember bread in her hand) Talking loud as if she wanted the world to hear her problems. Then she took her shoes off and put her feet in the chair..This was a nice supper club no Mc Donalds not that I would ever do it any where .I felt so sorry for the young man that was with her he looked as though he wanted to crawl under the table..I am not saying it is all ladies but the number is over whelming as to the men who get embarresed by the ladies they are with.. At times you as ladies should never put yourself in the position to be embarrassed let alone your man....Think before you do ....Why don't we go any where any more you never take me any where thats what you hear from most of us, well ask yourself what you acted like and if you carried yourself as a LADY the last time OUT ??.....When he came home what did you look like?? Hair combed looking cute so he wanted to be with you ??? Or were you complaining ,Im so tired the kids did this, I did this ,I did that, I am so tired!!!! Catch a clue sure you may be tired wore out , But don't you think that he is tired and may need a little TLC...........Where are your brains surley not in your head..Want to be treated special THEN BE SPECIAL........ Something to PONDER on YOU CAN'T MAKE SOMEONE LOVE YOU,
ALL YOU CAN DO IS BE SOMEONE WHO
CAN BE LOVED.
THE REST IS UP TO THAT PERSON TO
REALIZE YOUR WORTH......
Old FASHIONED ?? I received a letter today that made me wonder where the old fashioned morals went??? Or am I just to old FASHIONED, I was taught that a girl is like a piece of fine china and that you need to take care of it..Hey I like SEX as much as the next person BUT I BELEIVE When you give yourself you do so with one special person only!!! NOT AN ARMY...This letter really made me take a look at our young people that are looking for love and being used up..Example here is a girl just turned 21 she had her first child at 17 now she has another one with no means of support no education and really no motivation...You do not make yourself second rate you always carry yourself first class ....Sleeping around do you really have respect for yourself and on top of that will your MAN have any RESPECT for you ??????.I am not saying there is anything wrong with loving someone and being with that person ..What I am saying is if you get angry is it right to go out and make it with someone because you are PISSED...Another example a friend of mine had a party for his other half lost track of her ...He found her out in a car with some guy..Right or wrong ?? Her comment was I am glad you know..Why cause that type of pain.. Hey he is a hell of a nice guy..Did he deserve that ????Don't think so!! I just can"t see why if you are with someone what ever the reason IT SHOULD NOT BE HARD TO BE FAITHFUL and if you can't !!! Dom't mess with that person's feelings they are important also... Let them know you have to keep steppin..Be honest let them know you are not into them don't string them on !!! No one should be cheated on. I have a special person in my life and he is the only one, I don't know if you beleive in love at first sight but I TOOK one look fell head over heels ,if we don't see each other it does not matter I care enough about him that I wait, and he does not even know I am madly in love with him and that I really don't want anyone else for any reason SO I WAIT UNTIL he wants to see me, wrong maybe but I am clean for him and that is important to me..I don't think he even knows how much I care but I am not and will not push,He has to want me because he WANTS ME...Now you are asking what about him ..HELLO we have no type of commitment he can do as he pleases , And when and if we ever make that move I am and will be his only HE WILL NOT HAVE TO EVER WORRY ABOUT WHAT I HAVE DONE AS I AM HIS ONLY.....and thats the way I think ..Wrong who is to say what is right or wrong , I have found each of us is different and we have to live for ourselves...A lady should be alady...Take heed be honest and other things in a relationship but formost HONESTY and COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY TO ALL GOOD THINGS....IN A RELATIONSHIP........ |
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